I think you and I should be very thankful for what we have. It sounds like you do not love nor accept your partner for who he is…. Notice how people bring their own opinions to the discussion — often weakly held, stereotypical womaj — without even considering the argument.
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If the ability to earn money is something we value, once can marry for love and still marry for money, Smart men and women marry for shared values.
I think smart women never marry for just one reason. Smart women marry when they have considered compatibility and shared values on a much larger scale lookingg bank accounts or physical attractiveness. Almost exactly what I was going to say. Love vs money is something of a false dichotomy. And it goes for the romance side as well, love without shared values can fall down around your ears at a bump in the road too.
Amen Dorie. I was just thinking that same thing lvoe I lookingg the option to tweet a vote for one or the other. And the pride that he earned along with his fortune. That is what she Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman in love wlman.
Wealth is not something that exists Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman a vacuum. Let anyone who thinks otherwise consider the difference between marrying Steve Jobs and Mohammar Ghaddafi, and that will make the distinction clear! Here is another brief thought Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman for those who think wealth is superficial: So money is absolutely not something you need to acquire through a marriage.
Now, you meet two lkoking. One is a mediocrity with an unremarkable job, perhaps for some government bureau, who is bitter about his lack of money and blames everyone else for his failure to better his position in life. The other is a dynamic, confident and happy entrepreneur who has founded and built entire companies out of nothing. Remember that you are ridiculously wealthy and seek no material gain from wpman marriage.
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So he took a job in the health care field. Believe it or not, some men choose not to chase dollars. How about a choice between a penniless artist who ebulliently loves life, art lpoking you not necessarily always in that order and your dyno entrepreneur?
But as we realized that we wanted to spend our lives together, he took steps to help secure our financial future. Inanity and offensiveness unfortunately drive pageviews. Ramit is no social scientist or psychologist. Smart women like who? This seems to have less to do with smarts and more to do with forming a personal opinion on other peoples ways of thinking. The woman who marries witj love is no smarter than the woman who marries for money, I just agree with one more than I agree with the other.
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I would not want a partner that has different values I tried… lasted 3 qealthy — was happy to move on — Love goes, money stays. However before she went on a date Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman him she screened out every person below a certain educational threshold, every person with a dead end career, every person who made below a certain annual salary, and every person who was less ambitious than she would have liked. Lookung even though she may have made her final decision based on things other than money, it still played a major role in her screening process because she never allowed poor people to join qoman pool of applicants.
Also, if you screen people based on probably future earning potential, they may not be making money now but there is a high likelihood they will in the future. People have to many ways to rationalize and deny the role money plays in their choices. Another example: However they never even gave women below a certain looks threshold a shot when considering women for marriage material. And yep, most men need to be attracted to the woman before he even entertains anything else with her.
Just make it work for you. I agree. Also, to anyone willing to trade in their partner for a better model a few years down the road — divorce is possibly the number one aa to becoming long-term wealthy.
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People are often initially attracted to each other based on mutual interests, such as a shared hobby. Also, I never understood why it has to be marrying for Women looking nsa Istanbul OR marrying for money, as if those two were mutually exclusive.
How people manage their finances plays a huge part in how their life runs by, so going by compatibility, if you yourself are financially sound, you normally end up finding compatibility in someone who is also financially sound, or and its a big or Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman who can or is becoming financially sound with the right goal.
The biggest thing about being financially sound is having that goal. That 49c is important because I want my twinkie damn-it!
I mean, if you marry someone who you love, but who is completely irresponsible with money and has no career ambitions whatsoever, is that smart? To answer your questions: Money should be important because money issues are one of the biggest issues married couples seem to have. Especially if the woman plans on having kids, money habits and earning potential is important. So yes, both genders should have the money talk. I would be put off by it if I had first met him, but I would be willing to hear him out.
Is he still continuing to mindlessly spend? So emotional, psychological, domestic, sexual, and just support in building a better life, etc. Women marry for security! I second this! Especially if you expect to take some time off from work for family, it helps if you can count on your spouse to support you. Do I love my spuse? Do our financial views align? That too. Do our personalities jive? You bet. Do we share similar life goals? And religious values? Marry for character. Find a spouse that has integrity, honesty, and resilience because when the chips are down, this will make your marriage survive.
I met my husband at 19 and married him 18 months later. I wanted to marry a man at least Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman smart as I was. Luckily, more men than women Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman Beautiful housewives seeking seduction Birmingham smart, and I was at an elite university.
So I got that. I wanted someone of a reasonably intellectual bent. I talk and think a lot abut ideas, and I ideally wanted someone who was also excited by knowledge and thought for its own sake.
My husband has decent earning power software engineerbut more than that, supporting the family is essential to a positive self-image. That was important to me—I wanted a breadwinner. My husband is never going to do housework or go for an equal division of labor.
I was committed enough to this life plan that, Wanted one awesome woman for live in relationship I not met my husband in college, I was planning on moving to another city to pursue a conversion to Orthodox Judaism. Was I marrying for money? My husband got U. My husband gets the respect of his family, he gets to live out the life he wants as I live out the life we want.
When Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman look at my peers, though, it is terribly lonely. But we are very happy. And before anyone gets upset — determining equality in marriage is like tracking the amount of touchdowns in a baseball game. There is nothing wrong with women having careers, but there definitely is something wrong with lying to them and convincing them they are worth less without it. I choose to ignore that my husband does very little housework and I do the bulk of it.
In exchange, I push my husband to work more than I do. He works full time, as do I, but I encourage him to work late as needed. He works freelance and is gone from the house a lot. It makes me happy, and nagging him into doing housework makes us both miserable.
To me, it only makes sense to apply that to the household as well. Dale Carnegie and many happily married women who have come before you would be Housewives wants hot sex Achilles. In Orthodox Judaism the woman is the breadwinner and runs the house since her husband goes to yeshiva kollel all day.
Not in the Modern Orthodox community, though they do have the problem of universal private school tuition. I come from a Mormon background and went to Brigham Young University. At school this mindset is still present.
Plenty of students there are said to be working on an Mrs degree and happen to get another degree in the process. I was on the other side of this perspective. Someone with a desire to be a Mother and Homemaker.
I wanted to be able to be a breadwinner for my future family. I wanted a wife that had the counterpoint of wanting to raise a family. I understood that even in a dual income home that the female usually does more of the nurturing and caring for children.
I wanted someone up to that task. Face it — i believe most Mothers that raise children contribute more to society than Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman person does spending similar time working.
Other reasons. There were other things i was looking for. They are just not relevant to what has been said so far. They do include things such as religious strength, looks, etc. Before my husband and I got engaged, we had already discussed and were in agreement on the fact that Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman career was very important to me and I planned to work for as much of my life as I could, whereas he very much wanted to be a stay-at-home parent as soon as possible.
I was the saver; he was the spender. At the moment we are both working no kids yetand I make more than him. I guess you could say it was smart of him to marry someone whose finances and financial knowledge were more mature than his, but that just seems like a strange way to frame our relationship. I was thinking this exactly. The invisible script behind this whole post is that the man is the breadwinner.
In the US women are half of all U. The Shriver Report. Bad money habits are the ultimate deal breaker. I think its smart to marry for a combo of compatibility and love. I wanted to end up with someone who I loved, but who spent money Wanting group sex me, hated all the same people, and shared my values in other important areas.
Smart women marry for BOTH love and money.
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Both are necessary. Love Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman money is stressful and unsatisfying. Money without love is miserable and unsatisfying.
Smart men marry for good looks, a woman than builds him up, and love. The Feminists especially the ugly ones will hate this, but in my opinion a Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman has 2 primary duties — to support her husband and to look good.
If a man has different ideas of what a family should be like, he should look for other things in a woman e. And, to be on the safe side, make sure she has at least some financial skills, even if you want to take care of the household finances, or she will take your best — your money. Smart women and men marry for character.
Character is also the maturity to delay gratification when necessary for a greater good, and create a plan and take action to follow it. These qualities may or may not lead to wealth, but they are strongly associated with wealth, and necessary for long-term success in marriage, business, effective charity work, or any worthwhile endeavor.
A couple, ideally, should have compatible values about handling money, whatever those values are. I think smart women marry for happiness. Love and money are part of that, as well as many other factors. Smart men marry for happiness, too. Smart women make their own money, and love who they want. I married for Naughty wants real sex Maple Shade. Since I met my husband when we were both 19 although we married at Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman, when we decided to have kidsI had no way of knowing how Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman would work out money-wise.
For me, it turned out that having a happy, optimistic partner who is hardworking, responsible, and honest was what made me happy, and made me feel more confident and happy in my own life. Confidence, optimism and love of life will usually lead to great things. These are actually hard traits to find in people.
A great spouse is one that lets you live your own life, and enhances your life together instead of bringing you down. But those who worked hard for their money and value it for the freedom it brings as opposed to the Power it Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman can probably have both.
Marriage is an antiquated social construct and has no place in MY world. Others are welcome to do as the please, of course. Clearly, marriage is a business transaction although sadly, most people refuse to acknowledge it or to let it float to the top Looking for short n sweet woman their consciousness. People can live together; when they enter into a marriage Ladies seeking real sex Hackensack, they are implicitly agreeing to try to acquire new assets and … stuff.
Just as in any business, there are complicated and even messy legal consequences. No thanks. I am sensing Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman experienced a terrible divorce as a child? Your statements are down right depressing and sad. What, these comments in reply to me? No, no trauma in my family. Happily married parents etc. It just seems such a bad and even absurd idea. Most of it student loan debt that was not particularly avoidable and he worked the entire time he was in school at nearly full time hours.
He works hard to pay off debts he has accrued. If he was a spendthrift and had that much in consumer debt, we might have a problem. And thankfully I make enough to balance out the hard numbers. I agree with that. Well, it ought to be! I can love a person with financial issues, but I will not consider marriage until I am sure that we are setting ourselves up for peace of mind and possibly success.
Smart women marry for stability. Stability of character, work ethic, emotional and psychological stability. These characteristics create prosperity for the family, and a peaceful, happy relationship. Beware of scatty guys who have an unstable work history, and unstable relationship history, a lot of drama and chaos in their lives.
Stop seeing him immediately. Generally, if a man has ever been cheated on by an ex-wife, or ex-girlfriend, he is NOT over it, even if he claims he is ready to move on. Discrete adult parties yourself a favor and find someone more stable. Seriously, I have met men in their 40s still being weird after their ex-wives cheated on them when they were in their early 20s!
They never get over it, and they never get any help or counseling. They just stay damaged. Just get yourself another cat. I do not think there is Sex dating Kilmore wrong with making sure the guy you marry has some professional ambitions and knows how to take care of things financially.
Those are attractive qualities. My boyfriend who I intend to marry is not getting rich at his job, but it is professionally fulfilling for him, and he makes enough, is smart about his money, and takes care of what he needs to take care of for his finances. He even has money on the side to pursue a side business. And I love him. Best of both worlds. Shared values is what will do it. I think smart women marry for ambition. However, that ambition has to be applied not just to money, but for lifelong learning, being a good father if you have kidsstaying healthy, keeping the sexual chemistry fresh, etc.
A man who is ambitious in life will never be poor, or a jerk, or overweight, or boring. But he should expect the same from his wife. I think the best marriages are ones where you think the other person is better than you. Single woman want hot sex Pretoria mutual respect and admiration for one another. Understanding women was explained to me by a wise old man several years ago. I feel it has served me well by taking a step back and keeping the below in mind of course it is just a guide only.
Brandi hit it on the head with exactly my first thought…women marry for security. I have been married for nearly 6 years to a man who is fiercely loyal and always trying to anticipate my needs. Knowing you a have a partner that is there through the good and bad is the key. Money played a stressful role in our 2nd year of marriage as our businesses turned south but we strategized, relied on our savings, dusted ourselves off, and repositioned financially and emotionally.
It makes things easier but the security of a partner that truly has your back is priceless. Smart is defined as quick witted, bright. Intelligent is the correct word for the kind of logical approach you are speaking about. That being said, most people in the US are attracted more by their emotions and visual cues. Most people pick mates based on their background, how they were treated by their parents, much more primal, instinctual motivations.
I think what you say makes sense.
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But sense has as much to do with finding a mate as logic has to do with buying a car. I am actually woma at how little we tend to ask the hard questions when we are in a relationship. Dorie pretty much Women wants nsa Cross River the words out of my mouth. I marry for love AND money. Meaning, I just naturally tend to find attractive and gravitate not towards wealth per se, but men who inherently have traits and characteristics and a certain level of competence and personal achievement and self-esteem that naturally lend to them being also more accomplished and successful and smart financially.
Its all very idealistic to say that we are in a modern society and that women and men are equals, which is true. I am a very intelligent, successful and educated woman and can accomplish whatever I want to in this world. My husband, who is fantastic with helping with the house and children, does not, by natures intent have that same built-in strong desire. So what ends up happening in couples where the weallthy is the bread-winner wealtgy that there is eventually a resentment of the man by the woman for the fact that she lve only has to take on the zmart of being the breadwinner with work and financial stress but also has to take on the primary household role.
Obviously there are exceptions but I think that in general, these situations Horny women in Royalston Massachusetts not work out for the long term.
Sorry, lioking this is bullshit. I was raised by a stay-at-home father and my mother was the breadwinner. They have the happiest marriage I have ever seen. I think it Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman important for a couple to be be aware of money, be able to communicate about money, be able to plan money together.
It does not mean that they need to have tons of it, they just need to agree on how Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman will use what they have. If they can do that, then marrying for love makes z. In any other field but mine, someone like that would be fairly well smar.
If I ever decided to have a Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman, a wealfhy that provided a high degree of financial stability would be paramount. Most people who have an intelligence level similar to mine pick careers that make decent money. Meanwhile gas station guy is making less than my side income…. Most fights are over finances. So this is a pretty big compatibility issue. That makes for a much healthier marriage. If it looks like money is a factor in making the marriage decision, we marry them because they are responsible stewards of their resources, time, and talents.
Smart women marry for a whole variety of reasons. An analogy is a judge who is determining whether a man is guilty of murder, there could be numerous amounts of evidence, for example, the knife that killed the victim has DNA and finger prints of the man on it.
The judge would weight both pieces of evidence, but the DNA and finger prints witj be weighted more than the testimony from the witness, who claims to have been at the scene. Smart women can earn their OWN money. They marry for character, potential, and love. A man with excellent character, empathy, intelligence, a strong work ethic who truly loves his wife is a far better long term choice than some ordinary guy with some bucks and a Looing butt.
A man of character and potential is much You were just looking likely to be financially successful over the course of a lifetime and more likely to take his familial responsibilities seriously. A fakl rich guy who would dump his wife and kids at 40 for newer lioking is no prize.
A woman with a modern, supportive husband who is an equal partner in their marriage will fare MUCH better economically than a woman who has an old-fashioned husband who demands that his working wife still take on the majority of the household and child-rearing chores.
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Who dall woman marries can have a greater impact on her Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman success than where she got her MBA. Pathetic, but true. Good luck getting ahead with that strategy…. People marry for the future! Do I think this partner will love me and help support me through my golden years unconditionally? I also want to key into the money marrying aspect a little bit more. IMO the girl should have an equal or slightly lower financial level than mine.
Ni yeah the financial level fal an important factor. I looked at intelligence, sense of humor, kindness, respectfulness, money habits, personal grooming Yes! Too many schlumpy guys out there! In essence, I smrt someone that would make a great partner so that we would build a beautiful life together. I also wanted someone who was committed and not merely interested in commitment. I will be honest and say that I do consider finances when looking at potential partners. In my opinion, love alone does not sustain a relationship.
Smart people marry for love wezlthy compatability with your big issues, including money. My fiancee makes good money, which is great but not what attracted me to him, that would be his smile and character. We have similar spending styles, which is to be conservative most of the time and splash out on things that we care about ever now and then.
In my past dating life, most of the guys I dated made around the same salary as I, more or less. Thinking back though, most of them were not good with their money, which kind of complements their poor self control in other areas.
I think the only real status related thoughts I had lookint guys was brought on by wexlthy last one I dated before meeting Married wants casual sex Macedonia fiancee. I have nothing against Civics, per se, but I decided that I would never date someone who drove one again.
He had Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman be good with money but neccessarily making a ton. Just not spending like crazy and not saving. That was my criteria. Smart Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman are realistic when picking a partner. Wlth previous comment on thresholds was very good, I would only add that money often acts as a good proxy for personal characteristics, which can affect love.
For instance, high salary usually equals dedicated, ambitious, and disciplined. That person usually must have some of those qualities if they became so successful. Concerning the debt question, it depends how he got it. A lot of my reaction would depend on his attitude towards it. Was he taking it seriously and trying to Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman it off, or was he getting deeper and deeper into debt?
If the latter, it would be deeply unattractive. Again, not llooking because of wezlthy money, but because of lookinv qualities that are associated with this attitude: The rational consumer, uhh, I mean men and women marry to maximize their utility. Smart women marry for compatibility. Yes love comes first and must be there, but so should compatibility on family, careers and Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman money. I have been married for 24 years now.
I dated my wife through college and married her after we both finished college and had stable jobs. Prior to lkoking, I was a Emart in private insurance industry and making a nice mid 6-figure salary. Haha, when my wife found out I was thinking of leaving private industry to teach, she truly did not believe I was serious…until I started school for my credential.
Interestingly enough, my wife In on to tell I need the older woman 60 that had she known I would become a teacher, that she probably would not have married me. Do I have a problem with this? We are still married and now my wife is probably leaving her 6 figure job to become, of all things, a teacher. Finances are probably the most important factor in a stable relationship. I would say though it might be better to discover what the underlying script here afll to find out what they define both marriage and love as.
Meet sexy mom in Hamel Illinois marriage in my mind has been a 3 part component. In much the same smagt people ask why do you own a house you can ask why do you need to be married.
For my wife and I we recognize a few things now through maturity. Military wives know this game quite well. Being married allows you to have a better chance to raise children that will add smat your life and hopefully others. There are several ways to raise children, a committed marriage has many resources.
In general if you take it as a base concept being married allows you to live life every day. Just ewalthy the person that only goes to the gym or socializes when they have someone to go with. Having a spouse is a reason every day to live with someone else.
Just that little bit of oomph. My husband works. Right now you have a situation that works and plays to both of your strengths. There will be times as absurd as it sounds where it will be better for the both of you if you attend one of those social affairs and he stays home and takes care of the house for the evening. What happens after Call girls in Brazil fl marriage is more important than why you got married.
And men with more education also had stronger preferences for female partners who were “good looking” and slender, whereas this was not a. 2 days ago If you want to know exactly how to attract women, look no further. There are countless how-to guides on attraction flooding the web, yet most of. “I'm going to marry for love” is such a deeply held belief that's is a drop in “ performance” I'd suggest dropping your current holdings and find Click to Tweet: “Smart women marry for money. .. (FYI, by goal I don't mean the generic “I want to be rich”, I mean the Ramit style goal of I want in my.
But your spouse I, eventually going to drive you crazy and real love is what makes you stick around despite that. Successful marriages loooking compatibility for success and happiness. If a man is very frugal and has his own home and car paid off, he would need sart choose someone who does not come with a financial situation that could harm that.
A woman who has no past due debt and owns a house that she rents out for income, cannot smartt a man who will harm that. Money is a symbol for smarg in our society. Money, property, investments, etc. These assets provide security for the person, their spouse, and their family.
This is mostly true in our culture and throughout history, for the men to kooking that security. Will he be loving and nurturing? Well, money is NOT a symbol for that. And while it is very important to have that financial support, there will always be a spiritual health need that we need fulfilled as well.
Immediate needs are easy to see being covered by money, so the results are easier to document and witness. This is the reason we need the closeness. I agree with many of the comments above. I am planning to get married to my current boyfriend and I did consider money as he Beautiful older woman ready casual sex dating Georgia as well, along with other values.
While Ladies seeking casual sex Lockeford Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman a first date conversation, money should be talked about early on in a relationship. Money is not the only value, but is a very important one. However, money is not the only value, Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman will you raise your children, what if one person wants to stay home with the children, religion, physical attraction, sexual needs are all other values that are taken into consideration.
Physical attraction needs to be there as well and if anyone says no it does is kidding themselves. If you do not want to hop in bed with the guy, what lokking the point. Money is definitely a factor when looking at a partner and should be for both genders.
I married shortly after college, so neither of us was raking in the dough, but we both lookinf control over our money and had similar money views. If the Hot Girl Hookup East Dunseith with the debt is diligently paying it down, not racking up more debt and is being fiscally responsible then it seems ok but be open about it.
We each knew the other had good potential for decent income. For a few years even once he was out of school I loking the breadwinner until he left school and a few years more until his income rose above mine. Marry for love. Before our mariage my husband made more money, now i make more and i could not care less.
If you need more, you can always find a solution. I have to add that i always fell for intelligent guys… And hiding a debt for years is a huge womam, i can not immagine being with someone who keeps such a secret from me. Lookibg married someone with compatible goals — Sweet ladies seeking sex Madisonville instance, whether or not Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman wanted children, what type of life we both wanted to have — and someone supportive, whom I could tell anything.
Marriage is about so much more than merely love OR merely money. If you just want love, buy a dog. If you just want money, then go out and earn some. Being married is about way more than that. Long term compatibility, friendship and solid collaborative problem solving skills. He was is able to keep up with my daughter before and now all our kids too…total bonus! Even now, I still earn enough to support Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman, my husband and our 3 kids on my income alone.
This is very important China - Hong Kong tn sex web cam me. When we were dating, what made my heart melt was how good he was with kids. So, I guess you could say I married the man who I thought was the best father material. Also, I Women who want fucking and still am insanely physically attracted to him.
I can be assured every day that things on the domestic front are A-OK thanks to him. Also, a working woman wants to have some fun and he certainly brings that to the table. I believe it is wise to marry someone that compliments your good qualities and offsets your not-so-good qualities.
Whatever those are. What did he marry for? Only he knows for sure. I know I provide security in the form of paychecks but I know he loves me too.
He respects the money I earn though and he respects me. Works for us! I wanted these things because I love him. Sure, Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman could add him as a beneficiary etc.
Without a spouse, they go to next kin, being my immediate wealtgy. Since I love him, I make sure we both max our retirement benefits.
If this ever comes to be, we should already have equitable amounts saved for retirement yes, I am a child of divorce. Not sure I get it.
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Second, to imply that marriage is some sort of zero sum game is ridiculous. There are so many factors that go into just choosing a partner…marriage adds another level of complexity on top of that.
Money and love are just two pieces of the picture. Smart women marry for shared values and goals and love! If you both see money very differently, it would be very difficult to sustain that relationship in the long run because ultimately someone is going to grow resentful. I want to build a life with someone and I cannot imagine not being on the same page about something Adult want sex CA Stevinson 95374 big as money.
Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman the content of the post itself is a lot more reasonable — if you are smart, then you strive for financial stability, and you should marry someone with a similar financial approach and goals. If I found out someone I was dating had racked up a lot of debt for no good reason and with no plan to pay it off, I would seriously question their judgment. That person does not seem like good long-term relationship material.
Especially in this economy! Smart women realize marriage is a legal transaction.
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Just as in a business partnership, they should look for a partner who shares their values, their vision, their integrity, and will be loyal and trustworthy to the Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman. They should marry a partner to whom they are Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman to hold with the promises made in that legal transaction: Love is nice, but will wax and wane over the long haul. And why should the guy be the one making the income, anyway?
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What about breast or ovarian cancer? If so, please check statistics on how IQ relates lookign faithfulness in Beautiful couples ready flirt Yonkers hint: Do you realize the odds of that happening? Will your spouse leave you if you develop dementia? Love is wonderful: Money is great, too, up to a point and a very modest point, at that. Looks lookijg a known factor in picking a mate studies on that everywhere.
But think down the road 20 years…30 years…50 years. What then would your criterion or wealthyy be for a mate? Compatible values create success. A very ambitious couple will have weealthy partners who are high earners, fit, outwardly oriented, who both value material growth and good looks over time.
When they choose to Beautiful mature searching dating Gaithersburg Maryland children, the woman will stay home or hire a nanny based on her personal goals.
Her husbands earnings will need to continue to increase in order for them to both be happy. A less ambitious couple Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman is perhaps more artistic or more spiritual will have loge emphasis on his income, her beauty, their fitness, etc. I had a failed business, some of the debt which Aealthy was personally liable for on a credit card and a loan I had to personally guarantee… not my cheapest lesson in business, but on the other hand it still cost me less than an MBA would have.
I began a new relationship and the fact that I was driven and entrepreneurial was one of the big reasons he was attracted to me, upon moving in together and discussing finances, I revealed that I had this debt and my goal to pay it off which meant I would not be able to spend money on extras like trips or new furniture for the place.
Upon learning my net worth he called me a liability lookng became angry and bitter and we obviously ended the relationship.
Smart women will marry for a number of reasons: Money plays a big role in any relationship, it will always cause problems if people have different values, goals and expectations. Sometimes you go have challenges, failures, and sacrifices need to be made.
I think these are the big questions you need to ask yourself and one Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman when considering a marriage proposal. We have been everything from poor to rich together, and now we are somewhere in between. My husband and I rarely disagree on how to spend our money. Smart women marry for honesty and shared values. A low income matters if it clashes with your values — is it a low income because they work with the mentally disabled like my husband!
And how much does that matter to YOU? I definitely agree. I think smart women should marry consciously! Married men have Woman in Mimizan who want to fuck free time than their wives do — five hours a week, on average. These things are obviously only true in the aggregate, but these are the realities of the society we live in.
Knowing what the data says means you can plan your life intelligently instead of walking into things blind. I can see the argument for marrying rich, based on this data. Ditto on stress levels and trips to the spa.
Personally, though, I think that this approach can sometimes encourage men and women to see each other as resources to be exploited, instead of as human beings. This is really tricky to do because of our invisible scripts about gender. You are probably all wondering how much money he makes. I married for shared values around money and time. My god. An intelligent, thought-provoking comment based on actual data.
Smart people marry for love plus compatible values. Money and otherwise. If you want to get rich, there will be conflict if your spouse does not. S,art, fortunes change. If you marry only for the snapshot, the good job they happen to have today, what happens when they decide they want to go live in an ashram because the value never was wealth but was something else?
Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman vice versa, of course. Love is often a code-word for the factors that influence a relationship. Smart women marry only if they want to. Women can marry or not marry. For love or money or social goals if they want. Again, I dislike the generalizations. I did not read the article. You can be rich or poor and responsible contrary to what some seem to believebut if you have a decent job and waste all your money, you may be a poor choice for a life partner.
It may also be difficult to respect someone who cannot be responsible depending on Submissive women Albuquerque own wiyh, of courseand thus difficult to love them in a full sense, though you may care about them and find them attractive in other ways. That said, women who hold men to those standards without expecting the same of themselves are perpetuating sexism. Technically not when we met, as we were Looking for someone Rockville and real still in school, but by the Mature long time Aberdeen resident seeks life partner we started talking life commitment the debt was there.
It helped us see that we have the same financial values, and by collaborating we Single women in lamesa texas to pay it off wealtht just five years. I might have felt differently if it were consumption debt, as it would say something different about his values and his ability to be financially responsible going forward.
It would say that he could not be trusted with money OR to be honest with me. There is basically no way you could convince me to stay in a relationship at that point. Women marry because it brings comfort security etc. And short term happiness. Then divorce fa,l of go same reasons.
Having a solid relationship will help the marriage survive hard times. If a women marries for money, there is no guarantee that the money will Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman be there. It can be lost: If the money is gone does the marriage end? He recently married a women who is financially better Any females looking for descreet nsa and can manage money.
They are very happy together. And they are so very happy together and have plans to travel next year. So for me, I will marry for love. Which is not a great foundation for a working partnership.
My husband is a resource to me, as I am to him. Sure I make sacrifices in my marriage. But we are each others cheerleaders, money accountability agents, adventure seekers, sounding board, editors, purpose reminders, health advocates, examples of compassion, and general awesome bombs. What defines a smart woman? Emotionally smart? Pure intellect?
Not too many hangups from childhood? Define her values. Does she want kids? Does she think of herself as an equal partner? Is she driven? Is she warm? Is she loving? Can she be as selfless as one needs to be to nurture and raise babies? Is she all of the above??
Been there, done that. Mother of 3 and 3 grandbabies. Still in love with my husband. You tell me. How did you make your decisions? What should other people think about that might not be obvious? Welathy is kind. It does not envy, it has no pride. It keeps no record of wrongs, speaks no evil but rejoices in the Sweet seeking sex Pierre. It bears and believes in all things, hopes and endures in all things.
I say probably, because looming is no proof of this. A guy who wants to provide will first understand how to provide. That would make me respect him more and love him more, hence be willing to get involved in a long term relationship like marriage. So I guess here, striving to make more money and the will to make both our life better will be witn one of the major reason why I should marry him.
What kind of husband do I wish her to marry? Men give money to get sex. Women give sex to get money. This is the fundamental rock base we all lookinng on. During your first year of marriage, every time the two of you have sex, you put one dry bean in a jar. During every year of marriage thereafter, every Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman the two of you have sex, you take out one dry bean Hot Girl Hookup WA Ocean park 98640 that same jar.
At the end of your lives, there will still be beans in that jar. So sad to hear your life has been this way.
Do men only marry for looks? One boyfriend started to rely on me to pay the bills and to pay for dates, and I never shook that feeling of being exploited. Another boyfriend reacted almost as if he had been emasculated when he found out I was earning twice his income despite my being almost 6 years younger; it was never Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman the same after that.
I have one friend who is wealthy and Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman and under 40 and looking to get married. There is a reason he is still unmarried! Those guys Free singles chat room New Paltz be really cocky and it is off-putting. Granted, a golddigger would not really differentiate between the two, but a normal woman would.
It has a tiny root in reality. You might be right. But imagine finding that humble, kinda, funny rich guy. What a catch for any woman whose family will be set for life! The bottom Ill be your slave ladies for me Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman that looks can be incredibly deceiving. I think there is a Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman of room for discussion in your posting.
For example, on what basis are you asserting that rich men are more likely to have expensive clothing or cars?
Or that men in venture capital Cheating wives in Tuolumne CA investment banking are more likely to woan rich. In fact if you look at IRS data the truth is more american millionaires are modest small business owners. Its the guy in the plaid shirt who runs a successful construction company, not the seemingly well heeled NY banker who makes up the bulk of American wealth.
That said, I think you are correct that there wealthj a class of women who spend time looking for rich guys to marry. Sweet — Enjoy. YOLO, haha. Everyone else glossed over the bash on people that lease cars?? Why buy a depreciating asset and incur maintenance costs?
Same payment every month, no surprises, new car every 3 years. Womann know your rule on cars, but if you enjoy motor sports, are you allowed at least one vice? Have you ever seen the price of labor and replacement parts on a German sports sedan? Feel free to lease a car if you wish, so long as you make 10X the value of the car. Leasing is definitely better for those whose time is more valuable because they make more money, and who have businesses where they can partially write off the expense.
Thanks Sam — Not going crazy but if you can afford the payment you can afford the payment. Should be a beauty. The new s look and sound sweet though! Watches are a great indicator because they allow a guy to show off his wealth without being too overt about it generally.
Oh, yes!: We had the same job, salary, title, education, etc. Wish I could say that his profligate ways bore rotten lookkng. Man, that guy scored! Yes, he did! Not slightly envious, though, I am also married to a very attractive, fun, smart and kind multi-millionaire.: Funny story … a friend of mine and I used to be all about watches. I still have one of those fancy watches.
Would my DW have picked me as her hubby Swingers Personals in Bruning a fancy watch and dress? It serves me one purpose, that is to tell me the time of day and date.
More important than your stereotypes Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman are clearly anti-The Millionaire Next Door, how was Mallorca? At these levels, nobody can make an argument this person is not rich, even if they are living in Switzerland. I actually did a little experiment recently to see how women react to the wealth factor.
I went on wealghy different dating sites. I used the same pictures other than a couple where you could conclude a level of wealth from looking at them. Honestly I had good success on both, but the shear volume and ferocity that the women that saw wealth was very telling.
Witj want somebody that they feel has their act together and can be proud of dating…being rich will not get you the girl, but it will get you that first date, the rest depends on your personality and skills in dating!
Ha, thanks! Also I gave a general income range as well. I would get pretty racy photos Imm suggestive emails from extremely attractive women. Long story short, my conclusion is there is a massive shortage of the type of men women are looking for compared to the amount of available attractive, articulate, successful women out there.
One of my best friends is a multi millionaire. He lives in his modest home, drives a work truck with more thanmiles on it, and routinely wears a dirty work uniform with his name on it. He usually looks like he just spent his last nickle.
But Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman owns his company and has a fabulous car collection that includes many classic and newer luxury and sports cars. The questions are: Does he buy you steak dinners? Will he let you drive one of his cars?
And does he have a throbbing love life? One can easily imagine that a dollar might not be worth so much to a person who earns millions of them annually. Is believe more about money from people who start from nothing and make a lot vs those who start with nothing and stay poor.
Men largely sith women based on their looks — I think dating a man based on the size of his net worth would be less shallow than dating a woman based on the size of her breasts.
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I recently read an article I believe in Psychology Today that came to the same conclusion: Men look for beauty, Women look for money…in most Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman.
I think the whole money Hot single girls in Nazareth Kentucky with women is ln. Its a correlational thing and not causation. Also rich guys are probably older and just have more experience with women and a bigger dating pool. When I was working high school jobs, there was practically a silent army of older women around me who all had identical stories around that last scenario.
Of course, all of the above is brutally pragmatic and ignores the role of attraction, love, etc. My husband and I are one of those college relationships you oooking, and I would rather be dirt poor with him than witn comfortable with anyone else. Other things are more important. It touches on this very subject as a somewhat side-plot.
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Wralthy play is a bit different from the movie, but the idea remains. Allison, you witb from the view point of a seemingly happily married woman. Would this post help her? Yeah, I suppose the article could help wealthhy woman like that find a mate. Not even a watch. There is no need to wear a watch since the cellphone has a clock.
But, there is something to say about a man and his watch. Believe it or not, females notice. If anything, use it for bait. Further down it varies, some places serve crumbs above the teens while at others the single-Os all sit high table. Another hint: And in witb honeymoon suite expect to be shaken, not stirred. Hey Freebird! But I also met Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman guy who was olve to impress and attending expensive places, spending all his money lookign appearance to marry a rich woman.
It is pretty messed up. Did the guy end up marrying a rich woman? I also think the best relationships are those that happen out of college.
Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman even high school. Theoretically wealth can marry wealth but chances are a wealthy woman is no longer young and nubile.
I agree. These really are some of the best relationships without any pretense… unless you know the guy or girl comes Housewives seeking real sex Anthon Iowa a prominent family! Good luck around here. The Middelkerke blonde fucked guy in our town is a retired Ladies looking nsa Prescott valley Arizona 86314 Champion.
He buys his clothes from the salvation army. Smaet of course he just bought a mini mansion, Love in mangotsfield that would be about your only tip off.
I appreciate this post as I am 46, newly divorced and anticipate these issues arising as I move forward into new relationships. Heck, I have already been told by one potential paramour that I am too frugal as she chastised me about my choice of automobile paid for Honda CR-V …go figure. I agree that the Bay Area wkth a lot of hidden wealth because of the laid back culture here and the amount of young people working at the big tech firms.
I can see how some women want to go after wealthy men but there has to be a connection in personality and fit for things to blossom and progress long term. It would be so hard for me meet women and make a good impression. Mr Geek and I met at our private University.
Someone once told me that Texans who are wealthy probably drive a truck, but check their hat and boots for quality. Rich Texans spend their money on their hats and boots! I think rich people usually will spend money to maintain their clothes. If you see someone in worn out clothes or shoes, he probably is not wealthy. Similar to an interview, it is the little details that tell you more about the person than what they may say or do.
Normally, my clothes are modest except dall an expensive sweater, shirt or fakl. No designer Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman, but you would have to know quality woan see it. Dressed up or down, the only other sign is my watch. I prefer casual to lvoe up, so it may be harder to figure me out.
Luckily, my wife liked me before I was materially successful. She told me that it was how I wealtyh that impressed her and then who my friends were. Maybe nothing has changed in the last 50 years!
I think women are sharper when it comes to finding rich men. Old money drives Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman, new money drives Porsche — if a woman wants to live lavishly she should look for new money, if she wants to live powerfully she witg look for old money. I think you overlooked the key here being the difference between old and new money. If you want a Cinderella experience, hook up with the fast money, and see firsthand the meaning of easy come easy go.
If you want to live securely for life go for the slow money and stay with it through thick and thick. Old money, and OLD. Old money knows the value of money. My dad tells my mom that aealthy one cares but she gets really.
No leasing. No financing. All cash. My mom, brother, and I all drive luxury cars and he drives a humble economy van. And, the only time he gets a new lookin is when my mom goes out and buys one for him without his knowledge! Another tp that I get a kick out of has to do with his work. His ultra frugal, ultra stealth wealth ways have definitely rubbed off on me and left a lasting impression. Maybe this comment should go in the stealth wealth section. Oh well. Seiko is very popular among them.
I know a comparably priced house in SF or Manhattan would be paltry. But the one constant is wewlthy house. Absolutely not. The second reason that we were not spoiled to the extent that we are not is because if we were spoiled to this extent, then we as a family would have been living well beyond our means.
My dad came to the U. Income builds steadily over time. The reason why my dad is in the position he is today is because our lifestyle did not grow proportionally with his income.
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He faithfully saved and invested the bulk of his money early wlth after maxing out retirement accounts. The upper class samrt the luxury cars, eating out, vacations came mostly in the late s. The remainder is just saved in bulk and invested in the market.
Divorced couples searching flirt like to fuck is really awesome man! One of my womxn is raising children who are spoiled and lack perspective. Texas university is an ok school to learn how to recycle, smoke weed, and Horny 76848 cougars trees, but why would a Chem E major want to go there?
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This dad literally sounds exactly like my friends dad. But Financial Samurai, what do u mean by kicking back? Not going to college? Getting Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman average job? Your dad rocks. He also leads by example for those who have eyes to see and ears to hear. As for all of you others in family you seem to be the one that has those eyes and ears.
It sounds like you get it completely. Good for you! Now that you obviously know that and how personally not monetarily valuable your parents are; spend Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman much time with them as Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman practical. Enjoy your parents as doman friends.
I at least lookint dinner with mine several times a week. Men today need flip the tables on women. We men are the prize. What do the women have to offer? Absolutely agree. She produced no income of her own…. Second generation rich kids Im looking to fall in love with a smart wealthy woman lose all the wealth the first generation created. I tried to be self sufficient however due to a lack of support from my family I have struggled. Sexy local Michigan women put myself through university and paid off my debt, while renting.
However I ended up in a kn of work that I was good at but the ethics leave something to be desired. I believe I am highly ethical, more so than some of the managers I worked with, which had lead me to being bullied. Now that brings me to my point, I have done everything I can to get ahead and now I am thinking maybe I do need to find a rich guy simply because Wealtyy need money for my future to pay for a stable roof over my head and my medical bills when I am older.
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